7 BEAR BROs

What is your workout routine like? Any advice to other bears out there? Do you take vitamins, any particular food you eat that helps you to be strong?

“I'm not picky about which vitamins or proteins I should take, but I know how important they are. So I take Proteins that are good for me. Right now, I take FINE LAB WHEY PROTEIN with PROSPEC GLUTAMINE/CREATINE from Glico, and for Pre-workout I take BSN NO-Xplode to boost my energy. 
As for favorite food, I always eat everything I want to eat anytime. Of course, this makes me fat! Haha. But I always think that when it comes to being strong, we just need to know what our purpose is. It’s about being healthy and having a balance life! I know that you know what I mean. :)"

What is your thought on having a balance life? What does it mean? 

“I believe that people can live a balance without having to think about it so much. I'm already doing what I wanted to do. If I find something new I want to do, I just take action to make it happen. Coping with new things can sometimes be hard. But I am always excited to overcome any challenge that comes my way. All this is my way of living a balanced life.”

You seem very loving and committed to your boyfriend. It's very admirable. Can you tell us what's your secret to keeping a strong bear relationship? Especially, when it’s long distance relationship.

“I don't think that there’s a secret to maintaining a good relationship. I think we just found each other and fell in love. We fit well together and we make each other happy! In terms of distance, there are, of course, some challenges. Time zone, airfares, time me meet face-to-face and having proper conversation, etc. But I think we have become even closer since we are living far apart and have to overcome challenges together. The important thing is to NOT see them as difficulties.”

Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspiration.

To be an unforgettable person is my goal of my life. To get it, these are the things I'm doing:
1.      Enjoy my work – I think that we should do what we love.
2.      Stay connected with my friends – both in real life and through different social networks
3.      Do the best I can do – that goes for everything”

You are considered a role model for the bear community - for your handsomeness, kindness and unique personality and also having a good balance between love, life, and work. Any advice for the bear community?

“I think it’s really important to express our personalities. Each bear has his own charm, talent, and uniqueness. Anyway, we should be happy by being who we are!“
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What is your workout routine like? Any advice to other bears out there? Do you take vitamins, any particular food you like to eat to stay strong? 

“I set my target to go to gym around 3-4 times a week. But sometimes I’m so busy at work, I don't always meet that target. Training menu: I divide into 3 groups, First is chest and arms, Scond is shoulder and back and third is legs and abs. As for supplements, I sometimes try something new if it's interesting but I normally drink protein as my main supplement. Now, I am taking Phenom from HALE.”

What do you do for fun? 

“Whatever it takes to make me smile. I believe that smile brings me good luck. :)

Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspiration.

“Even though I have a lot of friends from many other countries, I cannot speak English so well. I wish I could communicate with them better, so I am practicing English a lot now. Also, I want to try living aboard for a couple months to get different life experience.”

You are considered a role model for the bear community; people look up to you for your friendliness, kindness, and handsomeness. Any advice for the bear community?

“All bears, let's have a big hug!
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We see that you have many bear friends across Asia from different countries. How did you meet them? What did you learn from having bear friends from different cultural background?

“Most of the friends I know across Asia are from Facebook. I feel lucky that I have a chance to learn, share experience and different perspectives of people from various backgrounds and cultures.”

In your opinion, how important is it for a bear to have strong community support? Big group of friends that you can make them feel comfortable? What's your view on a bear life?

“I think it’s really interesting that I can connect to the world, to people of each country through bear community. I couldn’t be happier to have so many friends in the bear community.”

What do you do for fun? 

“Most of the times, I go to gym with friends, try food from different countries, and drink with friends.”

You seem like a happy-go-lucky kind of guy, what's your secret to stay happy?

“Happiness for me comes from having an optimistic mindset. If I am happy, I think I will be able to share my happiness with others. So I try my best to keep that moment and share it with people around me.”

You are well liked by the bear community; people look up to you for your friendliness, kindness, and handsomeness. Any advice for the bear community?

“Let's meet up, have many many friends, and enjoy our lives together.”
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We see that you have many bear friends across different Asia from different countries. How did you meet them? What did you learn from having bear friends from different cultural background?

“I met my friends via social networks. It broadens my connections. Communicating with people abroad has helped me change my own perceptions about many things. I've started to ask myself how I should live and how I should be. It made me realize that improving language skills is really important!”

In your opinion, how important is it for a bear to have strong community support? Big group of friends that you can make them feel comfortable?

“I believe that focusing in one direction and continually improving the community is good and is very meaningful. If we build a group of good people who respect one another and each other’s ways of thinking without discriminating, I think it is possible that people will feel more comfortable living their lives.”

What do you do for fun? 

“I try to maintain good relationships with people. It’s fun to be around my friends.”

Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspiration.

“To meet my life partner whom I can spend my time with. My dream is to become wealthy and live comfortably. And perhaps getting married legally is also one of my dreams. These things aren't unrealistic. In fact, they can come true. To find a partner, it’s based on human relations. To become wealthy to be able to live comfortably, we must work hard and study hard. As for same sex marriage, I am certain that the world will change for the better!”

You are considered a role model for the bear community; people look up to you for your friendliness, kindness, and handsomeness. Any advice for the bear community?

“I will try my best to make things better for this community. In order to make this community stronger, we shouldn't be exclusive. It’s for everyone. I really like what BEAROLOGY is doing to bring bears together from various countries and trying to strengthen the community. I hope that everybody will be able to join this movement.”

We see that you have many bear friends across different Asia from different countries. How did you meet them? What did you learn from having bear friends from different cultural background? 

"We like to share our travel pictures and life stories on web, that makes us having a lot of cyber acquaintances. When we travelled to Tokyo, we met a lot of friends from the web. Later on with Facebook, it became easier to make friends and share our life stories all over the world!
When we have friends from different cultural backgrounds, there's always a big gap in our personality. I would like to think that I have an open-minded personality. Everyone we meet and become friends with will of their own pluses and minuses. I would like to take the initiative make more friends and have a deeper bond that we can all cherish. Of course, there will also always be differences and sometimes disagreements, but we shouldn't think too much about it. Everyone has their own preferences and comfort zones." 

Have they become a big part of your life?

"Yes, they have! As we get older, we've gained more friends, especially friendships over 5-10 years. They have, without a doubt, become part of our lives. But we cannot always meet everyone whenever we want. Sometimes we need to focus on other aspects of our lives, such as work, life, family and of course our love, but getting to know that friendships with true heart is very precious!"

What do you do for fun?  

"Photography (mostly selfie!, haha!) - we like to shoot good photos that highlight our best features. Therefore, I like to go to the gym, hope I stay in good shape too (so gay! Haha). Many of my friends think I love to go shopping, but in fact, I am too lazy to walk, my fashion director is Milton, he has great sense of style! I steal his clothes to wear sometimes!"

Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspiration - what are the three things that you want in life? 

  1. World peace, isn't it? Haha,
  2. Stable love, health, family
  3. Breakthrough in my career

You seem very happy and loving together, tell us what makes a bear relationship a good one? How long have you been together? What you are your favourite moments together?

"We are very fortunate! We fit well with each other in all aspects. To get along well, it's about having good chemistry, appreciating each other's positive points as well as the flaws. As we stay together longer, we understand each other better (just like a sweet fruit!). We learn from each other and help each other become a better person. We've been together for five years, and I believe in us. We will continue to sail through the next wonderful journey!"

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We see that you have many bear friends across Asia from different countries. How did you meet them? What did you learn from having bear friends from different cultural background? Have they become a big part of your life?

“I met them mainly through introduction from friends. Different culture backgrounds are interesting and I learn to respect and accept as well as to enjoy the different experiences that come together to form a community. Definitely they have become part of my life. It is a whole learning process which enhances life experiences and I am appreciative of those who are there for you when you need them.”

In your opinion, how important is it for a bear to have strong community support? Big group of friends that you can make them feel comfortable? What's your view on a bear life? Normal? Could be better?

“Very important and in fact this applies to every community. It provides a sense of belonging and security, sort of like a common belief bringing every likeminded individual together. When the world judges the gay community, the more we should stand together and support each other.
What is a bear life?!?! Haha I don't spend time eating fish and looking fluffy..., but basically I think it depends on each individual and how he chooses to live his own life. It definitely can be better because we are supposed to improve and learn everyday as we grow... :)”

What do you do for fun? 

“Fun? I love travelling and hanging out with friends. If I am alone, I will watch anime and TV series. I am actually a couch potato...haha”

Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspiration.

“Basically I have already achieved most of the things I want so all I hope is for my friends to be happy. My dream is to eventually move to Taiwan, which I am in the midst of planning. 3 things I want hmm... men men and more men! I mean friends, friends, and friends. Hahaha”

You seem like a happy-go-lucky kind of guy, what's your secret to stay happy?

“There is no secret. It is a choice you need to make. When you wake up in the morning, if you can choose to be happy or sad? Why be sad?! Also, I let go of things pretty easily. Life is too short to spend being stressful and unhappy...just let go... or talk to friends, if needed.”

You are considered a role model for the bear community; people look up to you for your friendliness, kindness, and handsomeness. Any advice for the bear community?

“I am!?!? Well, just be happy I guess and always be there for friends. To me friends are the most important. You don't need a lot, just a few good ones will do. And stay healthy.”

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